How to understand that a man is passionate and wants sex

It is difficult for a young girl to determine the physiological manifestations during intimacy with a man. Not everyone knows how to correctly identify the signs of a man's passion. They are physiological and psychological. Knowing them, any girl will be able to understand when a guy is excited and it's time to move on to the next stage of intimacy.

Signs of passion when kissing

Touching each other with lips excites boys and girls. At the time of kissing, men express their desire to have sex with the following signs:

  • Fast breathing and heart rate.
  • Biting your partner's lips.
  • Nostrils widen.
  • pupillary dilation.
  • Redness of the lips, cheeks.
  • The man tried to hug the girl with his whole body.
  • Formation.
  • Hoarse voice after kiss.
  • Before kissing a partner, he licks his lips, bites them, touches them with his fingers.
  • Touched his throat after the kiss.

After the kiss, the man looked forward to continuing, excited to the extreme. He will give joy and other signs. Look closely right after your lips part. He will have a blurry and blurred vision, most likely the guy will take a deep breath and hug you tightly. If the kiss is not filled with passion, physical and emotional stress, then the man does not have strong feelings for his partner or his head is busy with other things.

The passionate man with a kiss clings to the woman with his whole body

Signs of passion after a kiss in girls are the same as in men. But women can demonstrate it more vividly, for example groaning or stroking her partner's neck with a passionate finger.

During hug

To understand that a man is excited during a kiss is simple, you touch your lips, hear his breath, feel his heartbeat. But a hug won't give you that much information. Even when hugging, you can notice the following manifestations:

  • Couples want to hug the girl, to reduce the distance between the bodies. Use any excuse to do it.
  • The man touches his partner's neck, face, hair, waist, shoulders, knees, arms.
  • He did not immediately remove his hand from his lover's body, lingering, wanting to prolong the pleasant moment.
  • The man tried to look into the woman's eyes. His gaze is deep and long.
  • At the time of the hug, he rested his head on his lover's shoulder, burying his nose in his neck.
  • Make progressive movements: press firmly, then move away.
  • After a passionate touch, the skin becomes "goose-eye", a vibration flows in it.
  • He tugged at the hem of his shirt.
  • He tried to get under the girl's blouse with his palm.
  • Sweaty palms.
  • Increased salivation. The man was thirsty, drank a lot of water.
  • It tenses the muscles, keeping the back straight for a more collected, toned look.
  • Penile tension. This symptom is the main and most noticeable, especially if the man has tight pants or thin shorts.
During the hug, the man touches the woman's neck, face and hands

Recently, scientists have discovered another hormone - kisspeptin. It activates the cells of the pituitary gland, which are responsible for the production of gonadtropes (sexual behavior). Therefore, it is not recommended to exclude lip-to-lip kissing from foreplay. This stage triggers chemical reactions in the body and stimulates sexual desire.

physical signs

The physiology of men and women is such that in times of arousal, their bodies tense up, expecting intimacy with a partner. Girls become more flexible, supple, react vigorously to the touch of their partner, their nipples harden, their genitals are moistened. For men, the situation is slightly different.

Physiological signs of sexual arousal in men:

  1. If he is next to the woman he wants, he keeps his back straight.
  2. He unbuttoned his shirt.
  3. Adjusting the belt on his pants.
  4. Touch his face.
  5. Slowly respond to the interlocutor's questions.
  6. Spread your legs wide when sitting.
  7. Standing up, take the "legs shoulder width apart" position.
  8. Protruding from the pelvis.
  9. Gestures actively.
  10. He spoke loudly and quickly.
  11. He stared at the girl, trying to catch her eye.
  12. He opened his arms as if imitating a hug.
  13. Embarrassed.
  14. Frequently licking lips.
  15. Opened his mouth.
  16. Lowering the timbre of the voice, a slight hoarse voice may appear.
  17. The face becomes sweet, kind, conducive to communication.
  18. Eyebrows raised.
  19. Stutter in conversation.
  20. Pupils dilate, eye color may change.

In addition to these manifestations, to understand that a man is excited to the limit, his sweaty palms, trembling hands, and behavior like a peacock wagging his tail and asking the woman he loves for help. At times like that, girls need to control their behavior so that flirting is not excessive if the woman is not planning to have sex. Giving a man false hope with tricks, touches and flirting is not worth it.

Hugging a girl, the guy shows physiological signs of arousal

Psychological signs

It is very difficult for a man to hide his passion. They are given by psychological signs of excitement. Guys do certain things, move their hands in special ways. It is impossible to control this process. So pay close attention to your partner. You will understand that the guy is passionate, but hides this fact if you look at the following manifestations:

  1. A man is worried about his appearance. Fixing clothes, hairstyles, looking in the mirror.
  2. Do not move away from the object of attention.
  3. Extends the time of touching hands if the girl gives something to him.
  4. He was embarrassed to kiss, so he touched the girl's face and hair.
  5. He showered the girl with compliments.
  6. Switch to a whisper if he says something intimate.
  7. It was awkward when a girl looked at him without taking her eyes off him.
  8. He tries to please his partner so that what he wants is achieved.
  9. When a girl reciprocates, smiles, experiences spiritual uplift.
Touching a girl's hair is a psychological sign of male passion

The psychological aspect of arousal must be considered on an individual basis. Every human being has their own characteristic behavior.

Signs of passion when texting

Modern people very often enter into love relationships through dating sites and social networks, so correspondence becomes an integral part of communication. If the girl has not met her interlocutor in person, and she writes several dozen SMS every day, you need to think about the fact that the guy wants intimacy, rapprochement.

You can understand that a man is excited during correspondence by the following signs:

  • Frequently visit social networks to check for new messages from the object of attention.
  • Using any excuse to text a girl.
  • Ask to throw in a photo or send your own. The honesty of the desired image depends on the degree of closeness between the man and the woman.
  • Quick to respond to messages, ready to help anytime, day or night.
  • Frankly acknowledge the desire, although the phrase can be veiled. For example, "I want to see you now", "You can't handle it alone, I can help if I'm nearby", "Too bad we live in different cities, I will definitely register in your swimming pool part and be careful-heart reviewing your figure. "
  • Wants to correspond more often in the evenings, when he is relaxed and alone.
Frequent messages from a man to his chosen one indicate a desire for intimacy

On a note! It is believed that the duration of sexual intercourse and the hardness of the penis directly depend on the behavior and appearance of a woman during foreplay. Moans, gentle touches on the buttocks, back, body movements help stimulate men for quality sex.

While talking on the phone

Signs of a horny guy on the phone are as follows:

  • Long conversation.
  • Call for any reason.
  • Pause in conversation.
  • Ambiguous phrases and questions with sexual undertones, so the man probed the water.
  • His voice was hoarse, the man tried to speak softly, to get rid of the harsh words.
  • The boy was confused in his thoughts, the answer out of place.
  • In excited men, reactions to external stimuli slow down. So he spoke slowly on the phone.
  • The man took deep breaths, often sighing.
  • Try to meet as soon as possible.
  • Constantly repeats that he likes the interlocutor.
  • Offers different options for dating, agreeing to any meeting terms.
  • Ignites the girl's feelings by describing her virtue.
Feeling aroused, a man will talk to a woman for a long time on the phone

It is impossible to excite and seduce a man through correspondence, telephone conversations are too long. Set the line yourself, taking into account the character of the man, his temperament. Otherwise, he will calm down and lose interest.

Tips for girls

Heed the advice of sexologists on how to use knowledge of the physiological and psychological signs of male arousal:

  1. Heart palpitations, shortness of breath, and wide-eyed gaze are signs of uncontrollable arousal in men, so those are the main ones. Read this information first.
  2. Verbal symptoms of a burning desire for sex include the timbre of the voice, its speed, and the features of the conversation. To pay attention to them, you need to communicate with a man not by correspondence, but in reality.
  3. Another way to understand that a man wants sex is to follow his behavior on a date. Wanting to win over women, he will show himself from the best side, keep his legs wide, perform uncontrollable reflex actions. But if a girl starts following her every step, she will feel embarrassed, so pay attention to your partner gradually, imperceptibly.

And one more important tip: if you understand that the guy is very excited, wants to see you in his bed, make a decision on how your communication will proceed. Erection without discharge is dangerous for half of men. If a girl flirts and hints at sex, but constantly ignores her plans, toying with the feelings of her partner, then this will adversely affect the man's health. It is better to stop communicating or outright stating that you are not ready for sex than to entertain a man with false hopes for a long time.